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What you should know about Miscarriage

December 16, 2020

I literally cannot believe I am writing about miscarriage. When I started this blog I knew I was called to share how I navigated my life experiences through my faith in God, I just never knew this would be my experience. Even after everything I have been through on my infertility journey, all the diagnoses, the surgeries, the delays, I somehow thought that I would be exempt from experiencing miscarriage. Like surely after all of this, God would allow me to have a successful full-term pregnancy with a healthy baby. I’m deserving of that, right?! If I’m being completely honest with myself a very small part of me knew I was going to go through another heartache. God speaks to me often and sometimes in the quietest ways and I remember a few quiet moments where God began to prepare my heart for this. As I said, I believe I was called to share my experiences in hopes to help others and maybe God needed me, my story, to be even more relatable and to reach many more. That may or may not be true, but I need something to help make sense (somewhat) of this and right now this is the only thing that makes the tiniest amount of sense to me.

In addition to an infertility awareness advocate, I now have also titled myself as a miscarriage awareness advocate. I need to be able to relate to more people, right?! I guess. So, just like infertility, miscarriage is also a very taboo topic. It’s not talked about and many who suffer do so in silence. I’m about to share with ya’ll my experience because it has been hard – the hardest thing I’ve dealt with in life. Nothing can prepare you for the mental and physical anguish you go through. Infertility is already traumatic in itself, but miscarriage adds another layer to it and unless you’ve gone through it, you will never understand.

Miscarriage is very common

1 in 4 pregnancies will end in miscarriage. If you have a group of four friends, one of them will experience miscarriage. Or if you have a group of 8 friends, two of them will experience miscarriage. If I’m being honest, miscarriage is not something that was ever talked about growing up. Just like infertility, no one knew the severity of either matters and how often it affects couples, especially black couples. You know growing up we were taught that what goes on in the home stays in the home and if you were dealing with issues of any kind, just pray about it. That leaves very little to no room for seeking outside help or even healing. I didn’t realize how common miscarriage is until I joined this infertility community and started connecting with women on this same journey and reading stories. So why is something that is so common, not talked about? I believe there is so much shame, guilt and embarrassment around anything dealing with reproduction. That’s one thing we are just supposed to be able to do without issues right? After all, the Bible does tell us to be fruitful and multiply. The reality is we live in a fallen and sinful world where we are going to be met with sufferings of all kinds. Each of us have our own cross to bear and for many of us miscarriage is one of them.

I can’t tell you how many women have reached out to me or I’ve reached out to them who have dealt with miscarriage. Even men have shared how it has affected them. So with this being so common, again why is this not talked about more? I think the more we shy away from topics like this, the more difficult it is to have these conversations. Just like teaching young children the correct names for their body parts – penis and vagina. We have every name in the book except for what they really are because we somehow think “penis” and “vagina” are bad words. Which then makes children believe they are bad words and if they ever experience anything sexually inappropriate they are now afraid to talk about it because we have made those talks an uncomfortable thing. Sorry for my tangent, I work for a child advocacy center and I’m an advocate for sex positive talks with children to help keep them safe, informed and empowered.

Miscarriage is traumatic

From the moment my miscarriage was confirmed, the emotions began to run wild. Initially I felt completely numb and in shock. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me! When I talked to my doctor and nurse they gave me the option to miscarry at home by taking a pill that will help induce the miscarriage or have a D&C. Because of my history of scar tissue I opted to miscarry at home. It was a Monday when she called in my prescription and I remember picking it up and saying to myself, “my baby is gone”. I decided to wait until Joe got home before taking the pills so that he could be with me throughout the whole ordeal. I had heard that miscarrying is literally like giving birth because essentially it is! There will be painful contractions and a lot of bleeding, my nurse told me. I prepared myself for the worst. I was used to terrible menstrual cramps from when I was younger, so I just imagined them being like that but worse.

About 30 min to an hour after taking the pills the cramping began and it intensified I would say every 10 minutes. I had on the largest pad on earth and constantly alternated from my bed to the bathroom. The bleeding began and then the clots slowly followed. As I was passing clots I was in the bathroom and Joe was right there on the floor with me. The pain intensified and I felt like I was going to die. The clots coming out were small but big, if that makes sense. Bigger than any clot I’ve passed before but small because I was so early in my pregnancy. The miscarriage lasted from about 5:00 pm to about 1:00 am. In that time period I was passing clots off and on and going back and forth between my bed and the bathroom. I didn’t get any sleep that night because the pain was so intense. I only got relief in between the contractions. It was the worst!

The next day, which was a Tuesday, I woke up feeling okay. I wasn’t sure if I was done miscarrying because the heavy cramps were gone, but I still had some mild cramping going on so I assumed there was still tissue that needed to be released. Those cramps continued the rest of the week, which my nurse said could last up to a week. Even on Thanksgiving I was still bleeding and cramping. By Saturday the cramping was completely gone, so I figured everything had finally passed. Once I realized what my body had just went through, it hit me that all of it was trauma. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone, and if I had any enemies I wouldn’t wish it on them either.

Miscarriage can be lonely and isolating

I’ve seen this a lot that miscarriage is lonely and isolating and I see how it can be. First off, lets normalize announcing pregnancies early. It’s so taboo to announce your pregnancy in the first trimester for fear that you will miscarry. So, let me get this straight. We keep our pregnancies a secret until we’re in the “safe zone” of second trimester, so that if we miscarry we can silently suffer? How does that make any sense?! I saw a post where this woman said she wished she announced her pregnancy early because now she’s sharing the news of both a pregnancy and a miscarriage. I was glad to at least see that she shared about her miscarriage because many us of don’t even do that. We silently suffer and it’s wack! Lets normalize sharing our pregnancies early so that we can first celebrate that because it is something to celebrate and then we can get covered in prayer. Also, if a miscarriage does occur then you can be even more covered in prayer and not go through miscarriage alone. Not to say we have to share it all with the world, but I think miscarriage would be less lonely, isolating and maybe even less traumatic if we normalized it in the first place. Because of the shame, guilt and embarrassment around miscarriage, we keep quiet at a time when we need the most support. I hate it here. That makes zero sense and to me it’s exactly what the enemy wants. He wants us to feel lonely and isolated, like we are the only ones dealing with our sufferings. This weakens the faith, can lead to increased feelings of depression and perpetuates the cycle of loneliness.

For me, although in the moment of going through all my emotions I was blown that I had just shared the good news and then had to turn around and share the bad news, I’m glad I shared. I have had so many people covering me and Joe in prayer, praying for me at times I couldn’t pray for myself. So many people have been touched and inspired by my sharing and it’s overwhelming to even say that. There is so much power in prayer, there’s healing in talking about our sufferings and not weathering them alone. I’ve experienced that power and beginning to walk in that healing.

Healing after miscarriage is hard

It’s so hard to heal after miscarriage because it feels like a piece of you is gone. There are literally so many thoughts to process, so many hopes and dreams to grieve, so many feelings to feel – it’s a lot. I’m the type of person who likes to work through pain and difficult times rather quickly. I don’t know anyone who enjoys feeling heartbreak, sadness, disappointment, so whenever I experience any of those feelings I like to acknowledge them, process them and work through them and quickly! This. Is. Different. I can’t hurry through this because I just can’t hurry through it. I’ve been on this journey of trying to conceive for four years. It took me a good two years to decide to do IVF. It took one surgery to get to egg retrieval which only resulted in one normal embryo. It took two more surgeries to get to embryo transfer. I had a successful transfer and carried my baby for two months before she passed. I can’t just get over that. I can’t hurry through it. I don’t want to and I shouldn’t have to. A piece of me and my husband, who we loved so much, is gone and I don’t want to let go of the hope, the faith, the dreams, or the joy I experienced because of our girl. Right now, thinking about all of that and reliving our journey hurts and I’m sure it is going to hurt for a while. I don’t know what healing after miscarriage looks like because I’m sure anyone who has experienced it still thinks about the child or children they lost and there’s still a piece of sadness there, but I guess after a while it won’t hurt as much, maybe that’s healing. I’m not there yet, I don’t know when I will get there, but right now I’m accepting where I am and not rushing the healing process.

I am looking forward to sharing more as I navigate life after miscarriage and even when we try again. I don’t know yet how that will look but I will share what our next steps are once we know and are comfortable in moving forward and sharing. Right now, I’m focusing on processing and healing because miscarriage is hard and it sucks.

Until next time..

Live well,

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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕

Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽

Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽)
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕 Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽 Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽) • • • #sheexperienced #birthdayvibes🎂 #huntsvilleinfluencer #huntsvillecontentcreators #lifestyleinfluencer #livewell #birthdaybehavior🎉
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It’s my BIRTHDAY 🥳🎉💕 Today I choose joy, gratitude, peace, abundance, love, hope and all the good things! Year 35 was filled with many ups and downs, but I’m so thankful for the growth, to still be here and to be in purpose. Although I was certain this birthday would look different, I know that God still has a great plan and a promise to fulfill. So, I enter chapter 36 with expectancy and faith 🙌🏽 Also, now that I’m over 30 and closer to 40 I can never remember my age. I always ask my husband how old we are because who keeps up with ages after 30?! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Anyway, cheers to 36 🥂 (P.S. if you want to bless your girl with a little birthday coffee money check my stories 🥰🙏🏽) • • • #sheexperienced #birthdayvibes🎂 #huntsvilleinfluencer #huntsvillecontentcreators #lifestyleinfluencer #livewell #birthdaybehavior🎉
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This week’s fertility talk continues with @mikayla_v.f who will be sharing her fertility journey. I’m looking forward to sitting down with Mikayla and hearing her story. 

Set your reminder and join in on the conversation as we get to know another warrior in the community on June 9 at 7:00 pm CST 🤍
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This week’s fertility talk continues with @mikayla_v.f who will be sharing her fertility journey. I’m looking forward to sitting down with Mikayla and hearing her story. Set your reminder and join in on the conversation as we get to know another warrior in the community on June 9 at 7:00 pm CST 🤍 • • • #sheexperienced #fertilityconversations #blackwomenandinfertility #infertilityawareness #fertilityjourney #ttccommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitywarrior
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It’s June which means it’s my birth month 🎉💕 

I remember last year at this time feeling sad about June because our daughter would have been born in June. But then God turned those feelings of sadness into joy as He began to show that He was doing a new thing for us as it related to our fertility journey.

I realized recently that this will be our third year of treatment, our third round of IVF, our third embryo transfer and we’ve lost three little babies (I’ve also had three surgeries and have seen three doctors). I’m always curious about the significance of numbers in the Bible. I remember experiencing a series of sevens during our first round. I found that the number three means harmony, God’s presence, new life and completeness. I don’t know if or how this applies to our next steps, but I’m choosing to hold onto His word that reminds me to forget what has passed for it is nothing compared to what He is going to do. I still believe God is doing something new and as I enter a new month, I’m claiming new blessings, new mercies, new paths and new streams 🙌🏽

What are you claiming this month? Let me know below ⬇️ 
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It’s June which means it’s my birth month 🎉💕 

I remember last year at this time feeling sad about June because our daughter would have been born in June. But then God turned those feelings of sadness into joy as He began to show that He was doing a new thing for us as it related to our fertility journey.

I realized recently that this will be our third year of treatment, our third round of IVF, our third embryo transfer and we’ve lost three little babies (I’ve also had three surgeries and have seen three doctors). I’m always curious about the significance of numbers in the Bible. I remember experiencing a series of sevens during our first round. I found that the number three means harmony, God’s presence, new life and completeness. I don’t know if or how this applies to our next steps, but I’m choosing to hold onto His word that reminds me to forget what has passed for it is nothing compared to what He is going to do. I still believe God is doing something new and as I enter a new month, I’m claiming new blessings, new mercies, new paths and new streams 🙌🏽

What are you claiming this month? Let me know below ⬇️ 
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It’s June which means it’s my birth month 🎉💕 I remember last year at this time feeling sad about June because our daughter would have been born in June. But then God turned those feelings of sadness into joy as He began to show that He was doing a new thing for us as it related to our fertility journey. I realized recently that this will be our third year of treatment, our third round of IVF, our third embryo transfer and we’ve lost three little babies (I’ve also had three surgeries and have seen three doctors). I’m always curious about the significance of numbers in the Bible. I remember experiencing a series of sevens during our first round. I found that the number three means harmony, God’s presence, new life and completeness. I don’t know if or how this applies to our next steps, but I’m choosing to hold onto His word that reminds me to forget what has passed for it is nothing compared to what He is going to do. I still believe God is doing something new and as I enter a new month, I’m claiming new blessings, new mercies, new paths and new streams 🙌🏽 What are you claiming this month? Let me know below ⬇️ • • • #sheexperienced #fertilityjourney #infertility #infertilityawareness #miscarriageawareness #ivfjourney #blackwomenandfertility #unrealisticfaith #crazyfaith #infertilityawarenessadvocate
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Today we are celebrating the most special woman in our lives, our mommy @ms_dap21 🎉💕 Today she turns 60 and I’m so thankful that God has blessed her with another year of life and to see a major milestone. We’ve learned so much from her and she’s such a great example of a loving, hardworking, determined, strong woman of God. 

Growing up we always celebrated her birthday together and when we all moved to different states, it made that tradition a little harder. So, to celebrate together this year in Mexico is such a blessing 💕 Thank you God!
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Today we are celebrating the most special woman in our lives, our mommy @ms_dap21 🎉💕 Today she turns 60 and I’m so thankful that God has blessed her with another year of life and to see a major milestone. We’ve learned so much from her and she’s such a great example of a loving, hardworking, determined, strong woman of God. 

Growing up we always celebrated her birthday together and when we all moved to different states, it made that tradition a little harder. So, to celebrate together this year in Mexico is such a blessing 💕 Thank you God!
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Today we are celebrating the most special woman in our lives, our mommy @ms_dap21 🎉💕 Today she turns 60 and I’m so thankful that God has blessed her with another year of life and to see a major milestone. We’ve learned so much from her and she’s such a great example of a loving, hardworking, determined, strong woman of God. Growing up we always celebrated her birthday together and when we all moved to different states, it made that tradition a little harder. So, to celebrate together this year in Mexico is such a blessing 💕 Thank you God! • • • #sheexperienced #mommyturns60 #mexicovacation #playadelcarmen #birthdayfun #birthdaybehavior
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God has really been working on me in the area of worry. During my 21-day fast that was one of our focuses, to abstain from worrying. Someone asked me, “how do you stop worrying? That’s so hard.” That was my question as well because for so long worry has been my first response to any type of threat, problem or challenge in life. Worry is the result of focusing on our inabilities instead of focusing on God’s abilities. The more I read about what God has to say about worry the more I realized that worry is a choice and we have more control over that thing than we realize. 

God promises us peace but peace doesn’t just come magically. That promise of peace is conditional which means we have to do something in order to receive it - thus indicating that we have a choice. God promises us peace if our minds are fixed on Him, not on our problems. God knows that we will be faced with situations in life that will cause us to worry, but the beauty in this is that we can choose how to respond to those situations. We can choose to worry or choose to accept peace. We make it so complex but when you think about it it’s so simple.

If you are like me and you often let worry dictate how you respond to life’s challenges, I want to encourage you to choose peace. When you feel yourself being filled with worry or anxiety, turn those thoughts over to God and practice that every single moment the enemy tries to tempt you to worry. It’s not going to be an easy habit to break but we know that practice makes perfect.

If you’re choosing peace this week, let me know in the comments and share this with someone else who needs to choose peace 🙏🏽🤍
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God has really been working on me in the area of worry. During my 21-day fast that was one of our focuses, to abstain from worrying. Someone asked me, “how do you stop worrying? That’s so hard.” That was my question as well because for so long worry has been my first response to any type of threat, problem or challenge in life. Worry is the result of focusing on our inabilities instead of focusing on God’s abilities. The more I read about what God has to say about worry the more I realized that worry is a choice and we have more control over that thing than we realize. 

God promises us peace but peace doesn’t just come magically. That promise of peace is conditional which means we have to do something in order to receive it - thus indicating that we have a choice. God promises us peace if our minds are fixed on Him, not on our problems. God knows that we will be faced with situations in life that will cause us to worry, but the beauty in this is that we can choose how to respond to those situations. We can choose to worry or choose to accept peace. We make it so complex but when you think about it it’s so simple.

If you are like me and you often let worry dictate how you respond to life’s challenges, I want to encourage you to choose peace. When you feel yourself being filled with worry or anxiety, turn those thoughts over to God and practice that every single moment the enemy tries to tempt you to worry. It’s not going to be an easy habit to break but we know that practice makes perfect.

If you’re choosing peace this week, let me know in the comments and share this with someone else who needs to choose peace 🙏🏽🤍
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God has really been working on me in the area of worry. During my 21-day fast that was one of our focuses, to abstain from worrying. Someone asked me, “how do you stop worrying? That’s so hard.” That was my question as well because for so long worry has been my first response to any type of threat, problem or challenge in life. Worry is the result of focusing on our inabilities instead of focusing on God’s abilities. The more I read about what God has to say about worry the more I realized that worry is a choice and we have more control over that thing than we realize. God promises us peace but peace doesn’t just come magically. That promise of peace is conditional which means we have to do something in order to receive it - thus indicating that we have a choice. God promises us peace if our minds are fixed on Him, not on our problems. God knows that we will be faced with situations in life that will cause us to worry, but the beauty in this is that we can choose how to respond to those situations. We can choose to worry or choose to accept peace. We make it so complex but when you think about it it’s so simple. If you are like me and you often let worry dictate how you respond to life’s challenges, I want to encourage you to choose peace. When you feel yourself being filled with worry or anxiety, turn those thoughts over to God and practice that every single moment the enemy tries to tempt you to worry. It’s not going to be an easy habit to break but we know that practice makes perfect. If you’re choosing peace this week, let me know in the comments and share this with someone else who needs to choose peace 🙏🏽🤍 • • • #sheexperienced #wellnessjourney #wellnessinfluencer #lifestyleinfluencer #huntsvilleinfluencer #livewell #infertilityawareness #faithandfertility #miscarriageawareness
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